My Husband’s Mother

 I can’t say I intentionally chose him because I could forecast a future with such an aura of respect, but it definitely helped to shape my decision when making that life choice.

I know there are certainly things my husband learned from his father as well – the healthy ego and high self-worth he displays and self-confidence, but his gentler side I attribute solely to his mother.

Over the years I have seen her quietly take charge of situations – always the peacemaker, whether through words, actions or silence – never one to raise her voice or display resentment.

I recall her telling me the best way to get her husband to do something she needed done was to plant the idea and let him think about, then eventually it would become his idea and the need would be met.

My mother-in-law could tell when I needed private time during an occasional visit either to their home or to ours. She could also tell when a reassuring comment was needed during one of their occasional visits.

Both of these attributes, and so many more, I see in my husband, and how he in turn parents our three teen-age daughters.

And, for that I again say, “Thank you Lydia for raising a strong, confident, caring Christian man who is a positive role model for so many.”

And today, as you celebrate your 80th birthday I say, WELL DONE – live long and know how much you are loved!