April 9, 1994

I can honestly say that my feelings toward him have not faltered and I anxiously await the opportunity to love and respect him for at least another 20 years and more.

In this day and age where marriage seems to be as disposable as so many other facets of life, I am proud to say my husband and I are positive role models for our three teenage daughters of what a healthy relationship entails.

Now, I will quickly add that neither of us are perfect –  In fact I am quick to point out that between the two of us, my husband is by far the more patient and low key one in our relationship. I on the other hand tend to be more emotional and align myself to a roller coaster.

But that is why our marriage works. We have become attuned to our unique qualities and how best to enhance and build up each other. We also have a strong faith in God that has kept us grounded and focused on what is most important in life.

And we know the importance of alone time. I cherish my nightly exercise routine at Curves. My husband enjoys various sporting activities from softball and golf in the summer to an occasional game of basketball with the guys or more recently his daughters. He has his annual BBB (baseball trip) with a group of fellow Christian men and I have my get occasional getaways.

As in any relationship, there are days that are more trying than others, but when those moments creep into our lives, because of the depth of our commitment, it doesn’t take long for us to regroup and realize nothing is as important or critical as our relationship and commitment to each other.

So today I say, Happy Anniversary Larry – here’s to at least 20 more respectful filled years.